What's the point of this post? I have no idea. :P Simply some random rants.
It's been quite a while since my last post of my thoughts. Through my observation of the little world around me, I keep pondering will people remain the same for years, say after 30 years. I really doubt so. In such a short period of one year or two, we can always notice drastic change in some people, not to mention 10years and above.
Yea, it's the norms of this world. You gotta change to keep up the pace with this world as the world is always changing without any single warning to it residents.
And I say, never expect your friends to be the same even after years. For now, all might look good because it involves pure friendship. But I always say, things will never be same again when it comes to money, families and works.
Friendship and relationship are both complicated to handle. If you think they are easy, do take back your words and think again. You will never know what a "friend" will do behind you, and when you realize it, it's way too late.
If friends around us are changing, and we are not changing, it's a good or bad? I have seen many of my friends transformed into someones that I never knew. They are total stranger to me, even though we were that close years ago. Is it my fault or theirs?
May be they are changing and I am not changing.
I am one old conservative bastards.
But who cares, I live the way I want to. :P
Below this has nothing to do with the post above.
To Wilson, if you happen to be reading this post, hereby I apologize for the previous mistakes I had done. :( I hope it's just another minor fraction in our relationship. Cheers.
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6 comments:
haiz.. wonder y m i always so lucky to be the 1st to read ur blog.. it's good tis time, as in i dun wan ppl suddenly tell me tat "hey wilson, go read kp's blog! ur name is there!"
well, arguments and quarrels are normal among friends.. if u ever notice, friendship between 2 friends will be closer after each argument.. coz tat is the chance for both sides to learn how to tolerate each other, and learn more bout each other..
1stly, i wanna clarify tat.. i DIN argue wit u at all.. DID we shout at each other and blame each other for anything? no rite? means we din argue at all.. i was juz mad n a lil upset bout tat matter.. but the anger did not stay long.. juz tat we din talk.. how i noe worr.. u din talk 2 me so i marr din talk 2 u lo.. rite? perhaps u feel tat i hav changed.. ya i hav.. wat i hav changed is.. u noe i m the kind of person who cares everything around me veli much.. i m juz learning not to care so much over so many matters.. especially those minor n insignificant wan..
anyway.. juz to tell u tat, i got over it long long time ago.. u too dun think so much bout it anymore... it's over.. alrite? we r still frens, n roommates! ;-)
ah teh my dear, long time didnt post any comment here ald. hows life ??!!
hey,i had the same feeling before, bout the change and not the change things. ha ! but,if change to a better person,why not? most of the time, is the environment around us that force us to turn into another person.
but, i still believe that the inner part of that someone is still the same. 江山易改，本性难移。he or she just pretend to be some other people so that they can adapt to the new environment. so that they wont left behind. yea,sometime i wonder why we have to be so fake, and i really hate myself when i didnt behaving in the such a way i should.
dun think too much la, sayang. muacks.
p/s : nobody is prefect. its depends on us how and from which angle we look at it. *wink*
with ton of lurve,
-lihui-
Thanks Wilson
Lihui,
looks like you are the one who thinks too much wor. Hmm....this is life after all and life is a bitch. Try to live it and practically, thats the only thing we can do. Right?
Muacks.
Haiz....
Life is like that and friendship too especially when we are roomates. Friendship will transform into devil and no more like before...Laugh, play together..
I also face the same problem here...
Actually ppl is not changing, just we know each other deeper and their waknesses outweight the strength...
Mix feeling when facing such hassles...
Take it easy CheeWei. No one can avoid this kind of situation in their life. Get used to it and live with it.
"I am one old conservative bastard"
like this line...cz i am jz the same..haha..
probably cz we share the same surname? haha!
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